There is a famous quote that goes like this:
“I like hugs and I like kisses, But what I really love help with the dishes!”
Who wouldn’t agree with that, right? Any parent would be rejoicing when kids are being extra especially in terms of household chores.
Children who do chores do not only help around the house but they actually learn a lot from it.
Allowing children to do house chores truly opens a doorway for much learning.
Listed below are the 7 learnings your child gets as he lends an extra hand:
1. Independence
Trusting your children with certain tasks allows them to learn the value of doing things on their own. It can range from sweeping, washing the dishes or watering the plants.
Younger kids may require guidance and supervision in the beginning but as they go about doing the chores, they’ll eventually get used to it and they can now do the chores independently.
One helpful tip would be to make a chart of the chores and tasks for each family member so everyone is reminded and you won’t keep on telling them what to do.
2. Respect And Value For Gifts
Children who willingly do chores and are trained to take care of stuff like books, toys and anything in the house will learn to respect and value those things around them.
As children understand the value of their belongings, they feel grateful for what they have.
One helpful tip, especially for younger kids, is to show them how to “pack away” their belongings and a special song can be sung so it can add fun and creativity to the task.
3. They Are Good Stewards To The Environment
Parents must teach their children to clean up after themselves. Kids learn to take care of their surroundings and be good stewards of creation this way.
4. They Become Responsible
Early on, if children become used to listening and carrying out what their parents tell them, that can help them become good and responsible in the future. They can also learn to budget their time and manage their day-to-day schedule if the chores are established as routine tasks.
One tip is to teach your children to budget their time. For example, after coming home from school, time should be set for homework, resting, playing and chores.
5. They Learn To Value Themselves And Other People
Children who do household chores are more likely to be more grounded than those who don’t. They become more sensitive and compassionate to others and focus less on themselves.
One helpful tip is to give your child a number of tasks so he can extend his learning outside your home. You may also want to read books about inspiring people.
6. They Learn The Value Of Service
Involving kids around the house actually gives them the opportunity to serve others. Just like a ripple effect, they begin learning it at home and it’ll pave its way to the community.
7. They Learn To Understand Of Their Capacities
This may sound philosophical but doing household chores can actually do wonders in their self-esteem. They will understand better that they have done something beneficial not just for them but for others as well. When kids are able to accomplish tasks and chores, they begin to understand that they have capacities in building a cleaner, more organized and harmonious home.
Your child should be encouraged to accomplish his chores and at the same time, recognize and acknowledge him as well. Reinforcement can do wonders on your child’s self-esteem.
After all that has been said, parents should model the things to be done at home. Walk the talk, they say. Values are easier caught than taught.
